Strength in Numbers

                                                                               Steven

Our youngest son is entering high school this fall as the eldest enters college. What a time for all of us! We have always believed the boys will do well in life, and the struggles we encounter in order to get them there have been trying at times. This is not anything new to any family with children, I know- but it feels good to be able to say that even though we all struggle, we pull through one way or another.
Steven is a kid who is very smart, creative and active. He is humorous and well liked. He also has come a long way over the past 7 years since I was a single parent. With the encouragement from every adult in his life, Steven proves to us over and over again that he can do almost anything if he sets his mind to it! Whether it be sports, friendships, "dating", or academics...when Steven wants something- if he works hard enough- he'll get it!
He is a work in progress- as all kids are...and I can only believe that if he continues in this path of struggle, try, succeed, he will do just fine. I worry, as all parents do, about both of our boys- so learning to breathe and deal with these struggles can be very stressful. Luckily, I have a great partner who feels as I do, and we talk and sort things the best we can together...
Steven is a lucky kid as is his brother, to have the courage and strength to wade through rough waters with the support of his family.
I love you Steven!

With that in mind-
Time for Tea!
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Beginnings

I have been with my significant other for almost 5 years now. We have decided that after 1 1/2 years of being engaged, it's time to make our marriage vows. I have to say that I had feelings of doubt about marriage- we seem too good to be true as it is! Why change things? I am very comfortable with our living situation (together) and our relationship, and our love. I am actually more than comfortable, I am in love with it all-

When we decided on a date for our wedding, we gave ourselves 5 months in which to prepare. We just had one son graduate from high school, so why not add another huge event to our lives? Right? LOL

No, there is no complaining or regrets...

I have just found my dress-

I wasn't exactly thrilled about being 47 and a bride... but I decided to do my best. I wanted classy, eye-catching and champagne. I thought to myself that I am marrying the most perfect person in the world, I want him to be bug-eyed when I walk down the chapel aisle. I want him to be happy and excited, the way I feel now! I was surprised when I tried on my first dress, and bought it! That's what happens when you cry the minute you see yourself in the right dress! It is just what I wanted, and what I think he would like to see me in. I hope so...

We have many things on the go already for the big day- now we just need to hone the list of guests, and find a restaurant to accomodate 50 - 60 people. I think we can do it! It won't take much doing once we get out there and ask around.

I am officially an extatic bride, and am happier, and more enthusiastic than I ever thought I'd be-

What a wonderful feeling- I hope you feel it too, hon!

xxxooo Me

With that in mind- Time for Tea!

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